Not sure if things can change —
but willing to find out?
Marriage Counseling • Discernment Counseling • Individual Therapy
Serving Vienna, VA, Washington, DC, and surrounding areas
Over 25 years of experience
Get unstuck. See what’s possible.
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If you’re tired of wishing things were different and you’re ready to do something about it, you’re in the right place.
Hi, I’m Mary McLaughlin. I’m a seasoned therapist known for working with even the most challenging couples, including those who don’t believe therapy can help them.
Sound Familiar?
There’s no depth. Sometimes I wonder if he even cares.
I’m always in the doghouse. Nothing I do seems good enough.
I’m not going to bring it up - why rock the boat?
Infidelity. Broken trust. How do we come back from this?
It feels like we’re roommates at best.
I dread coming home.
I thought we were ok, but now divorce is on the table.
What if instead…
You looked forward to coming home because that’s where you felt most at ease and connected. You could talk about hard things and know you’d be heard and understood. There was less tension and more laughter. Trust was rebuilding and you start to feel like a priority again, with more fun and more affection between you.
If you’re interested in seeing what’s possible and willing to do the work, we may be a good fit.
FOR INDIVIDUALS
You don’t have to have it all figured out.
Maybe it’s your marriage or another relationship that’s important to you. Or perhaps you’re facing a difficult decision, feeling anxious or overwhelmed, or struggling with something in your life that needs to change. I see individuals every day who want to understand themselves, feel more confident in how they’re showing up, and live a life that reflects their values and what matters to them.
Getting Started is Simple
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Choose How You’d Like to Start
Schedule a 15-minute consultation or book a first session.
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Let’s Begin
I’ll send you a few dates and times, you pick what works, and we’ll get started.
A supportive space where real progress happens
Your sessions take place in a comfortable, welcoming office - designed to help you focus on what matters most. The space was intentionally created to feel calm, private, and inviting - more like a home than a medical office.
Whether you’re coming for couples counseling or individual therapy, the goal is to create a safe space where honest conversations, reflection, and meaningful change can happen.
In-person and remote options
My office is conveniently located in the heart of Vienna, Virginia. Can’t make it into the office? No problem – teletherapy is always an option.
“Our marriage was in trouble and we weren’t sure we could get through it. Mary helped us understand each other and communicate effectively. We are eternally grateful. ”
— Couples Counseling Client